Into the Known

When two people come together in love, it does not matter how, when, where. When they bond and become a "couple" with life plans and dreams, they are saying on another level, "We want to grow together". Love is growth, life is growth. Love is change, the nature of life is change. Love is vital and evolutionary. When love is there, growth is there. If one is unwilling to grow, one is unable to experience deeper levels of love at that time. Perhaps there will be more readiness at another time, after some healing. Life is about growth. souls come to earth to grow, not to be stagnant. When the earth path is finished, souls move to another realm, where they grow still. Can a baby stop growing? No. A baby grows until adulthood. Even in death there is growth. This is eternal life...eternal growth. Growth doesn't stop when one leaves earth. It continues on and on and on into all galaxies. There is always growth. When one enters into a pact of love, verbal or written, one is saying, "I choose growth". We wish more people would understand this. Please accept the commitment of growth when you say, "I love you". This will keep love pure and strong. What if two people stopped growing together? What if love stopped between the two? There are ebbs and flows in love just as in nature, and there are completions. Completion are a stage of growth, also. All life is about movement and growth. If you want love, it is already there. If you want it, allow yourself to have it as you deserve it. Think it feel it, desire it with commitment and truth. You may be surprised if a conflict (inner or outer) arises showing you the pain within. Feel the pain, honor it! Let it move through you without denying it. This make room for the love! The love follows your acknowledgment of the pain. First a thought, then a response. First an intention, then a manifestation....the laws of energy at work. A desire arises from your depths and creates a change in your life. The desire is a spark of energy. It is physics and life. The "sparks" of creation or pure creative intelligence, arise every minute in every individual. Everyone is equal in this sense; all having sparks and opportunities. If one believes deep within, "There is no way I can have happiness", then there is no happiness. Understand a choice was made unconsciously for no happiness. It may have been a survival choice, and it kept the status quo. If you are willing to let go of the "known", the new can come forth, the new happiness. Ask yourself, "Am I willing to let go? Am I afraid to let go?" If afraid, it is all right. Own it, choose(not force) to let go and commit to it. If so inclined, ask for guidance from the Divine, the universe, etc. When you are ready, the letting go will occur. It is not productive to judge yourself. IF you say, "I'm a terrible person for not being willing", then you have deepened the unwillingness and made the process more difficult. Accept where you're at, and you are on your way to freedom!