The Pretty Thoughts of a Hot Chick!

9 Beliefs of a Hot Chick! 1. My beauty is a conscious choice and a daily practice. 2. I may get bruised, but I’m never broken! 3. Style is how I speak to the world. 4. I have the power to manifest my desires through positive and pretty thoughts, visualization, dedication, persistence and intention! 5. Lives in the moment and appreciates the journey. 6. Great sex starts with me. 7. A good cry is essential, but a smile is an every day rule! 8. I am never afraid to find the humor in my mistakes and embarrassing moments. 9. Sex appeal is more than physical attractiveness. It is my body language - how I feel, speak, walk, sit, stand, gesture and move. 1. I believe in my beauty… You are who you think you are. Live it! Breathe it! Perception is reality. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you, my beauty, are the most important observer. Remember, if you believe it, they will! “Pretty women wonder where my secret lies…” --Maya Angelou, “Phenomenal Women” from AND STILL I RISE Pretty is as pretty does… I was not always so sure of my beauty. Many moons ago, I would give too much power to the notion that a beautiful, sexy woman can’t have flaws…that she had to fit a certain make, model or mode. But one day, after yet another crying fit over what I did not have, or a new bump or two, I realized after seeing my reflection through tear-stained eyes that I was whatever I chose to be. You see, beauty is an aesthetic comprehension, which is purely subjective. It is an idea…most notably a belief…of being a woman who knows who she is and how she chooses to be pretty to the world. Just because you’re not thin, don’t have a big butt, certain facial features, big boobs, smaller boobs, long hair, a particular hair texture, perfect skin or you’re a little older than the rest, doesn’t mean that you can’t be just as hot as the next woman. Hey, beauty is like ice cream—there are many delicious flavors enjoying their rightful place on this smorgasbord of prettiness. So why not embrace your particular brand of allure? You’ve got to believe it in order to achieve it honey, and if you do, others will follow. So, go ahead and carry yourself like a beautiful woman. Remember, how the world responds to you is up to you! It is by your thoughts, hand and command! The notion, “If I lost 10 more pounds then I would be…” or “I hate my…” should stop immediately because what I focus on the most becomes my reality. For example, if I only think and complain about how much I hate what I believe to be a certain flaw then I will attract people who will see my perceived flaw. But, if I keep my mouth closed and my thoughts focused on my terrific attributes, then my insecurities will diminish and I as well as others will see your beauty.