Letters in the Lunchbag

About the Book

Too often, we take our relationships for granted. This book is not a how-to book. Rather, it acts as a reminder as to what really is important in relationships — how we look at our partners and what is right about them instead of what irritates us. These notes were written to my wife each day to express my feelings and why I still love her after thirty-six years of marriage.

About the Author

Arno Ilic is a business consultant by trade. He has always been interested in writing but has mostly been involved in technical writing. He and his wife have a very close relationship that has been nurtured through 36 years of marriage. At one point he noticed that the relationship was drifting, so he decided to recommit to the relationship by focusing on what is right with his partner. Why did he marry this person, and what was it about her that attracted him? So in answering these questions, he started writing notes that eventually led to his first book, Letters in the Lunchbag. While lunch bag is typically one word he has used this mispelled word to say that not everything needs to conform.